FAQ
Let’s dive right in. The organization of this FAQ is very simple. At the top of the page you’ll see a list of questions organized in sections of similar questions. These questions link to another section in the page where you’ll see an answer for each question.
Please leave your comments here. This page is evolving. If you have a question that you think others might also want to know the answer to, I’d like to know, and I’ll consider adding it to the FAQ. Thanks!
- What Aspects Should I Consider?
- My Dick Is X Inches Long, Which One?
- I Want The Tightest Possible, Which One?
- Which One Is Most Like Pussy?
- Which One Is Most Like A BlowJob?
- Which One Is Most Like Anal Sex?
- I Want To Last Longer, Which One?
- I Want The Most Intense, Which One?
- I’m Gay, Which One Should I Get?
- How Tight Is Regular? Super-Tight? Ultra-Tight?
- Which Inserts Are Smooth? Which Ones Are Textured?
- Which Inserts Are Regular Tightness, Super-Tight, And Ultra-Tight?
- Where Can I Read Reviews Of Each Insert?
- Can I See Some Videos Of Guys Using It?
- How To Use Your Fleshlight From A To Z
- Can I Use It Hands-Free?
- What Other Positions Can I Use Fleshlight In?
- Can I Use The Insert Without A Case?
- How Big Is The Insert? How Big Is The Case?
- How To Use The End Cap Effectively?
- How Much Lube To Use?
- Can I Dilute The Lube With Water?
- Can I Use Fleshlight With My Spouse? How?
- How To Warm Your Fleshlight
- Can I Use A Condom Inside The Fleshlight?
- Can I See Some Other Guys Using It?
- Can It Be Any Better Than My Hand?
- Is It Better Than The Real Thing?
- I Purchased A Toy X And It Fell Apart.. They’re All Crap, Right?
- Does The Material Feel Lifelike? Does It Feel As Good As Toy X?
- Is It Made Of Latex Or CyberSkin?
- What Are The Purchasing Steps?
- Tell Me More About The 3-for-2 Deal?
- Is It Safe To Purchase Online?
- Is Delivery Discreet?
- How Will The Charge Be Listed On My Credit Card?
- Can I Pay With A Money Order? With A Check? With Paypal?
- OK I Bought, What Happens Next?
- How Long Does It Take To Get Here?
- What Lubes Not To Use?
- How Do I Know If A Lube Is OK To Use?
- Can I Cum Inside It?
- How To Clean Your Fleshlight After Use
- Its All Sticky!!! What To Do?
- How Do I Powder My Fleshlight?
- What Kind Of Powders To Use And Not Use?
- Can I Turn It Inside Out To Dry Or Clean?
- Can I Rinse It With Alcohol?
- How To Rescue An Old Or Dirty Insert?
- Can I Microwave It?
- Can I Boil The Insert?
- How To Dry Your Insert?
- My EndCap Or Big Cap Is Stuck, What To Do?
- What Is It Made Of? Is It Safe To Use?
- I Have Medical Condition X, Can I Use Fleshlight?
- I’m A Virgin, Can I Use Fleshlight?
- I Am Uncircumcised, Can I Use Fleshlight?
- Can I Use Viagra With Fleshlight?
- Can I Use Enhancment Creams Or Other Aphrodisiacs?
- Can I Use A Cock Ring With Fleshlight?
- Can I Use Anal Toys With Fleshlight?
- I Have a Prince Albert Or Other Piercing, Can I Use Fleshlight?
- I Can Give My Fleshlight To My Friend To Use, Right?
- Can I Sell My Used Fleshlights?
- Is It Masturbation? Is Masturbation Wrong?
- I Feel Guilty Using Fleshlight, Should I?
- Should I Tell My SO About It?
- Why Is It A Good Thing To Use A Fleshlight?
- Where Can I Read More About Fleshlight?
- Can I See Some Videos Of Guys Using It?
- Is There A Chat For Fleshlight?
- Can I Modify My Fleshlight? How?
HOW TO CHOOSE A FLESHLIGHT
- What Aspects Should I Consider?
For the impatient: Read my PRODUCT GUIDE which will guide you through the decision process.Choosing A Fleshlight is a multi-step process. First, you need to consider the size of your penis, specifically its girth, which is how many inches it is around your penis head when you’re fully erect. That measurement determines which inserts are candidates for your purchase, because inserts come in three different internal diameters.
Next, consider your sexual preference: if you are heterosexual, you will be happy with any of the orifices: vagina, mouth, butt, or non-descript. If you are gay, you will probably prefer butt or mouth.
Finally, if you are interested in seeing your penis while using the Fleshlight, consider an Ice colored insert (transparent), otherwise one of the Pink, Gold, Chocolate, Mocha, or Lavender colors will be appropriate.
All these details and considerations are laid out in my PRODUCT GUIDE
If you already know which Fleshlight you want and you just want a guided purchasing procedure, click here. That link will guide you through the choices and enable you to purchase one insert and one case in matching colors. If you are looking to buy more than one insert, consider the 3-for-2 deal where you choose three inserts and pay for only two (a discount of 33 percent!). You’ll need to add at least one case to your shopping cart.
- My Dick Is X Inches Long, Which One?
Your dick’s measurements, most importantly its girth (see above), are but one consideration in choosing a Fleshlight. Please consult my PRODUCT GUIDE for all the considerations and a step by step decision process. - I Want The Tightest Possible, Which One?
If you want the tightest insert, that’s the UT. Before you buy, though, make sure to read my PRODUCT GUIDE to ensure its the right one for you. If yes, you can buy one via the step-by-step guided purchasing procedure. - Which One Is Most Like Pussy?
Different people will tell you different answers, so there’s some disagreement on this. Everyone has a different taste and preferences. However, there is wide agreement that either the WonderWave or the STU will give you an experience very close to real, hot, tight, wet, and excited pussy! - Which One Is Most Like A BlowJob?
That’s a bit easier to say. Most people agree that the WonderWave Mouth insert gives a very good blowjob. - Which One Is Most Like Anal Sex?
I’d get either the SuperTight Butt or the UltraTight Butt. - I Want To Last Longer, Which One?
If you want to train to last longer, consider getting the STU, it has a nifty feature that makes it very obvious to you when you’re close to the point of no return, when orgasm is going to be inevitable. If you pay attention and notice the signal, then you can slow down or stop altogether, and successfully extend your session. - I Want The Most Intense, Which One?
The most intense insert is the SuperRibbed. It contains soft ribs that will tittilate your dick head in an irresistible fashion, making you cum in record time, and HARD! - I’m Gay, Which One Should I Get?
You should get any insert depending on the size of your penis (read my PRODUCT GUIDE for help deciding which one), and you’ll probably prefer Butt, Mouth or Non-Descript orifices over the Lady orifice. - How Tight Is Regular? Super-Tight? Ultra-Tight?
The inner canal of the Regular Pink Lady is about 3/4 inches in diameter at rest. The canal of all super-tight inserts, e.g. the WonderWave, in half an inch in diameter at rest. And the UT has a canal with internal diameter of 1/4 inches at rest.Since the inserts are incredibly stretchy, even the UltraTight will accommodate the largest penis. However, it will be extremely tight and exert so much pressure that it desensitizes, so it will not be very enjoyable. You should choose inserts with diameters appropriate for your dick’s girth, as explained in my PRODUCT GUIDE for maximal enjoyment.
- Which Inserts Are Smooth? Which Ones Are Textured?
Here’s the info:- Regular Pink Lady is smooth.
- SuperTight is also smooth.
- UltraTight is also smooth.
- WonderWave has a wavy texture inside the canal.
- SuperRibbed has ribs inside the canal.
- SpeedBump has bumps inside the canal and looks like an octopus.
- STU has bumps that are similar but larger and softer than SpeedBump.
- Which Inserts Are Regular, Super-Tight, And Ultra-Tight?
Here’s the info:- Regular Pink Lady has internal diameter of 3/4 inches.
- SuperTight, WonderWave, SuperRibbed, SpeedBump, and STU have an internal diameter of about 1/2 inches.
- And UT has internal diameter of about 1/4 inches.
- Where Can I Read Reviews Of Each Insert?
Below I list my reviews of each insert:- All my reviews on one page here.
- Review of the WonderWave. My first insert!
- Review of the STU. All time favorite!
- Review of the SpeedBump. Bumpy, speedy ride!
- Review of the SuperRibbed. In-tennnnnnnse!
- Review of the UltraTight. Tighter than this and it’s illegal!
- Review of the SuperTight. Like sex with an experienced hot babe! Watch Out!
- Review of the Pink Lady. The first one they made!
- Can I See Some Videos Of Guys Using It?
See lots of Fleshlight videos here



